Six-Week Programs
For Men | The Severance
Six-Week Porn Addiction Ordinance for Men
YOU RUN COMPANIES BUT YOU CANNOT RUN YOURSELF
You close deals that move markets. You manage teams, budgets, strategies. People defer to you in meetings. Your opinion shapes outcomes. And every night, you sit alone in the glow of a screen, clicking through tabs like a fourteen-year-old who just discovered his father's magazines, except you are not fourteen and this is not discovery. This is compulsion wearing the clothes of choice.
You have built a life that looks like mastery from the outside. The career, the home, the family that depends on your competence. And you have also built a second life, the one that starts after everyone goes to sleep, the one where you are not the man who leads but the boy who hides, cycling through the same loop of arousal, release, shame, and the promise that this was the last time, a promise you have made so many times it has lost all meaning.
The humiliation is not that you look at porn. The humiliation is that you cannot stop. That your word means nothing when it is given to yourself. That you have tried willpower, apps, accountability partners, filters, therapy, every method that lets you keep pretending this is about information or strategy or finding the right system, when the actual problem is that you are ungoverned and have been for so long you have forgotten what it feels like to mean what you say.
You are not a man with a habit. You are a boy with a compulsion, living in a man's body, running a man's life, and the gap between those two facts is the thing that wakes you at three in the morning, staring at the ceiling, wondering when you became this.
THE PATTERN YOU RECOGNIZE
You know the cycle by heart now. The trigger could be stress, boredom, a bad day, a good day, or nothing at all. The rationalization arrives on schedule: just this once, just to take the edge off, just to clear my head so I can focus on the real work. You tell yourself you are managing pressure, that this is how you decompress, that everyone has something.
And then you are in it. One video becomes three becomes twenty. Time collapses. An hour passes and you cannot account for where it went. You finish and the world comes back into focus, and with it, the familiar weight. The self-disgust. The bargaining. The reset. Tomorrow will be different. Tomorrow you will be the man you are supposed to be. Tomorrow the willpower will hold.
Except tomorrow arrives and nothing has changed, because you are not solving this with willpower. Willpower is what got you the career, the discipline to show up, the capacity to push through when things are hard. But willpower does not work on compulsion, because compulsion lives in a part of your brain that does not negotiate, does not respond to promises, does not care about your intentions. It only knows the pattern, and the pattern has been trained into your nervous system through thousands of repetitions until it is as automatic as breathing.
You have tried stopping on your own. You have tried filters that you bypassed within a week. You have tried accountability partners who texted you motivational quotes while you ignored them and opened an incognito window. You have tried therapy that helped you understand the roots of the behavior but did not make you stop. Understanding does not equal control. Insight is not governance.
And so you are still here, still caught, still living with the knowledge that you are weak in the one area that actually matters, the ability to govern your own body, your own attention, your own time. Everything else you have built is a performance erected on top of that central failure, and the performance is exhausting.
THIS IS NOT PERSONAL GROWTH. THIS IS SEVERANCE.
The Severance is a six-week protocol designed to cut your access to compulsion at the root and replace your chaos with non-negotiable structure. This is not a program where you track your urges in a journal and celebrate small wins. This is not group therapy where you share your story and receive validation. This is not an app that sends you reminders to stay strong.
This is an imposed system that removes the option to fail.
You will be given a fixed schedule that governs when you wake, when you work, when you move your body, when you eat, when you sleep. The schedule does not bend to your preferences or your moods. You execute it because it is the requirement, and deviation is recorded as failure with immediate consequence.
Your devices will be controlled. Access to privacy will be rationed. You will submit daily proof of compliance, time-stamped, with no room for creative interpretation or retroactive reporting. You will complete utility assignments designed to rebuild reliability in the smallest units of your life: showing up on time, following through on commitments, doing what you said you would do when you said you would do it.
When you slip, because you will, there is a rehearsed protocol. You do not spiral. You do not bargain. You report the relapse, accept the consequence, and return to structure within the same day. Relapse does not end the work. Lying about relapse does.
The method is extreme because it has to be. You have spent years training your nervous system into this pattern, carving the neural pathway deeper with every repetition, and gentle interventions do not reroute compulsion. You need something that removes the negotiation, that makes obedience easier than resistance, that rebuilds the capacity to keep your word starting with the smallest possible unit: one day of compliance.
WHAT CHANGES
You will notice the shift in stages, though not in the order you expect.
First, you sleep better. The 3 AM restlessness fades because your nervous system is no longer running on the chaos of compulsion and shame. Your body learns that sleep is sleep, not the prelude to another cycle.
Second, your mind clears. The fog you have been attributing to stress or age is revealed to be the residue of overstimulation. You can focus on a single task for longer than fifteen minutes without needing a hit of novelty. Work becomes easier because your attention is no longer split.
Third, the people around you start to trust you again. Not because you told them you are different, but because your behavior has become predictable. You show up when you said you would. You do what you said you would do. Your word begins to mean something, first to them, then eventually to yourself.
Fourth, and this takes the longest, the compulsion loses its grip. Not because you have defeated it through willpower, not because you have processed the trauma that caused it, but because the structure has made it inconvenient enough, boring enough, difficult enough that the path of least resistance is finally compliance instead of relapse.
You do not become a different person. You become a functional one. A man whose actions match his stated values. A man who can govern himself in private the same way he governs himself in public. A man whose masculinity is not a performance but a fact, proven daily through the simple dignity of keeping his word.
WHO THIS IS FOR
This is for men who have already tried everything soft and are ready for something hard. Men who are exhausted from maintaining the performance. Men who have the resources to pay for structure and the humility to admit they need it. Men who are willing to be uncomfortable, to be exposed, to have their excuses stripped away and their patterns dismantled without the cushion of therapy language or motivational frameworks.
If you are still looking for understanding, this is not the place. If you are ready to execute, apply.
THE REQUIREMENTS
You must complete the Foundation Assessment first. No exceptions.
You must be willing to have your devices monitored, your privacy reduced, your autonomy traded for structure.
You must be able to report daily, punctually.
You must be willing to face consequence when you fail, not as punishment but as the reintroduction of accountability that modern life has removed.
You must understand that this is not content, not entertainment, not another subscription to add to the pile. This is governance delivered with precision and without mercy.
Investment: $8,500
Duration: Six weeks
Prerequisite: Completion of Foundation Assessment
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For Women | The Erotic Initiation
Six-Week Sexual Archetype Discovery
YOU HAVE BEEN PERFORMING SOMEONE ELSE'S DESIRE
You have spent your entire adult life being what you thought you were supposed to be. The cool girl who never makes things complicated. The empowered woman who takes what she wants and needs nothing. The good girl who is grateful for attention. The wild one who performs confidence so convincingly that no one, including you, can see how empty it feels.
You learned early that your value was tied to being wanted, and so you became whatever would keep you wanted. You molded yourself around other people's fantasies, their expectations, their comfort, until the performance became so automatic you forgot it was a performance. You have been so busy being desirable that you never stopped to ask what you actually desire, and now you are here, successful and attractive and utterly disconnected from your own body, going through the motions of a sexuality that belongs to someone else. And maybe you have wondered what it would be like to stop performing for men entirely, to submit to a woman who sees through every layer of your carefully constructed persona and demands the truth underneath.
You say yes when you mean no because saying no feels dangerous. You perform enthusiasm you do not feel because you are afraid of being boring, difficult, too much, not enough. You have learned to read the room, to calibrate your response to what will be received well, to make yourself smaller or bigger or different depending on what the situation requires. And somewhere in all of that adaptation, you lost track of what you actually want versus what you have been trained to want.
The worst part comes at three in the morning when you realize you cannot remember the last time you felt genuine desire instead of performed interest. You have optimized yourself into a stranger.
THE PERFORMANCE YOU RECOGNIZE
You know what you are supposed to want because the culture has been telling you since puberty. Sexy but not slutty, confident but not intimidating, experienced but not jaded, open but not desperate. The woman who does not need anything, who is always ready, who makes it easy, who never makes it weird.
And so you become that. You show up as the version of yourself that keeps things smooth, that does not rock the boat, that makes other people comfortable. You are good at reading what people want from you and delivering it with just enough authenticity that it passes for real. You have been doing this for so long it feels like strategy, like intelligence, like power, when really you are just repeating the same survival mechanism you learned as a girl, dressed up in adult language.
The books about reclaiming your sexuality have not helped. Neither have the Instagram accounts telling you to own your pleasure, the toys and the lingerie and the affirmations. You have tried being more assertive, tried asking for what you want, tried all the things that are supposed to make you feel empowered, and somehow you still feel like you are performing, just with different lines.
The techniques and confidence and permission are not the problem. The problem is that you have no idea what your actual erotic nature is, because you have spent your entire life suppressing it in favor of what would be acceptable, what would be safe, what would keep you loved.
EXCAVATION THROUGH EXPOSURE
Erotic Initiation is a six-week process designed to strip away every layer of performance until we find what is actually underneath. No body-positive Instagram content where everyone celebrates their journey. No vision boards about your divine feminine energy. No safe space where every answer is valid and every feeling is honored.
Uncomfortable, exposing work that will make you want to quit.
You will complete assignments that force you to confront exactly how much of your sexuality has been a performance. You will track your actual responses versus your performed responses. You will identify the exact moments when you start performing and what triggers the shift. You will articulate desires you have never said out loud, wants that feel too embarrassing or too much or too specific to admit, things you are ashamed of wanting because they do not fit the image you have been maintaining.
You will discover your sexual archetype through a diagnostic process that looks at your patterns, your fantasies, your actual arousal signals versus your performed ones. What you have been hiding, even from yourself, gets named and examined.
Then we rebuild your sexuality around that truth instead of around what you think you are supposed to be. Some of what you discover will not be what you expected. Some of it will not be comfortable. Some of it will contradict the story you have been telling yourself about who you are and what you want.
Content that makes you feel good about yourself exists elsewhere. If you are ready to stop performing and start discovering what you actually are, then this might be the only honest work you have ever done.
WHAT YOU DISCOVER
The work reveals itself in layers, none of them gentle.
You realize how much energy you have been spending on performance. The constant monitoring of how you are being received, the calibration of your responses, the management of other people's comfort at the expense of your own experience. When that drops away, the space it leaves is enormous and disorienting.
You confront the gap between what you have been pretending to want and what your body actually responds to. You have been overriding your body's signals for so long you have stopped being able to hear them. We teach you to hear them again, and what they say might not match the story you have been living.
You identify your actual archetype, the erotic pattern that has been running underneath all the performance, trying to express itself through the narrow channels you have allowed. What it reveals will include things you have been taught to be ashamed of.
You learn to wield it. Not as something you perform for others, not as a tool to get what you want, but as a source of authority. As energy that commands attention without asking for it. As power that does not need to prove itself because it simply is.
By the end, you stop apologizing for wanting what you want. You stop making yourself smaller. You stop performing desire you do not feel and start expressing desire that is actually yours. You become someone who is no longer available for relationships, encounters, or dynamics that require you to be anything other than what you actually are.
The end of performing and the beginning of being dangerous.
WHO THIS IS FOR
Women who are exhausted from being everything to everyone. Women who have built impressive lives and hollow interiors. Women who are competent in public and confused in private. Women who know they have been performing but do not know how to stop.
Women who are ready to be uncomfortable, to have their stories challenged, to discover that what they thought they wanted was just another adaptation to someone else's expectations.
Women who want validation can find that elsewhere. Women who need to be told they are already perfect can find that elsewhere. Women who are looking for another aesthetic to perform can find that elsewhere.
If you want to keep performing, keep scrolling. If you are ready to stop, apply.
THE REQUIREMENTS
You must complete the Foundation Assessment first. No exceptions.
You must be willing to track your actual responses, not the responses you wish you had or think you should have.
You must be willing to articulate desires that make you uncomfortable, wants that feel too specific or too embarrassing or too much to say out loud.
You must be willing to confront the gap between the sexuality you have been performing and the sexuality that actually exists underneath.
You must understand that this work will not make you feel empowered in the Instagram sense. It will make you feel exposed, raw, and eventually, undeniable.
Investment: $8,500
Duration: Six weeks
Prerequisite: Completion of the Foundation Assessment