POLICIES
Admission
The House operates by application. You do not purchase services directly. You submit an application, provide the information requested, and wait for a decision. Most applications are declined. Those accepted receive instructions for next steps.
Selectivity exists because this work requires genuine fit. The methods are demanding, the disclosures are intimate, and the commitment is substantial. Accepting someone unsuited for the work wastes their resources and my attention. The application process identifies those capable of benefiting from governance and filters those who are not.
Acceptance to one level of work does not guarantee progression to the next. The Foundation Assessment is available to those accepted through application. Structured programs require demonstrated readiness. Private Governance is offered only to those who have proven sustained capacity for the work over months of engagement.
Fees and Payment
All fees are published and non-negotiable. Attempting to bargain on price, timing, or terms signals unsuitability and ends the conversation.
Payment is due according to the schedule provided at booking. Foundation Assessments and program fees are paid in full before work begins. Private Governance requires quarterly payment in advance. Late payment results in suspension of services until the balance is resolved.
Refunds are not provided under any circumstances. You are paying for access to my time, judgment, and methodology. If you fail to complete the work, miss scheduled sessions, or choose to discontinue, you have funded your own lesson. Chargebacks result in permanent removal and documentation.
Payment plans do not exist. If the fee creates financial strain, the timing is not right for this work.
Confidentiality
The disclosures required in this work are deeply personal. You will share information about your patterns, failures, relationships, sexuality, finances, and psychology that you have likely never shared with anyone. This information is held in strict confidence and used solely to design effective governance.
I do not discuss clients, reference specific cases publicly, or share identifying information under any circumstances. Your privacy is foundational to the trust this work requires.
The same expectation applies to you. You do not discuss your work with the House on social media, in online forums, in podcasts, or in public contexts. You do not post about your progress, hint at your participation, or use this work to signal sophistication or status. The work is private because privacy protects its integrity. If you cannot maintain discretion, you are not suited for admission.
You may discuss this work with a therapist, physician, or attorney when professional consultation is warranted. You may share with a partner if relationship transparency requires it. These exceptions exist because they serve your wellbeing, not because they create opportunities for public disclosure.
Communication
Communication occurs through designated channels and within defined windows. You will receive clear instructions about how and when to submit required materials, ask questions, and schedule sessions. Outside of those parameters, I am not available for ongoing conversation.
This boundary exists because governance requires structure, and structure requires limits. Unlimited access creates dependency rather than self-governance. The goal is to build your capacity to function without constant oversight, which means access is intentionally constrained.
Questions submitted through proper channels receive responses within a reasonable timeframe. Urgent matters are addressed according to their genuine urgency, not according to your anxiety about them. Learning to tolerate the space between question and answer is part of the work.
Commitment and Expectations
This work demands genuine commitment. You will be asked to disclose uncomfortable truths, follow directives that challenge your preferences, and maintain standards when motivation fails. The structure works because it refuses your excuses, which means you must be prepared to have your excuses refused.
Programs have defined durations and requirements. The Severance runs six weeks with daily accountability. Erotic Initiation runs six weeks with weekly assignments and proof requirements. Private Governance operates on quarterly cycles with intensive ongoing oversight. You agree to the full commitment when you begin. Partial participation produces partial results.
Sobriety is expected during sessions and for any communication involving sensitive disclosures or decision-making. Arriving intoxicated to a session, or sending messages while impaired, undermines the work and may result in termination.
Fit and Removal
Some people discover during the work that they are not suited for it. The structure feels too demanding, the disclosures too vulnerable, the accountability too relentless. This is useful information. Recognizing poor fit early preserves resources for both parties.
If I determine that you are not benefiting from the work, that your psychology requires clinical intervention beyond my scope, or that your behavior demonstrates unsuitability, I will end the engagement. This decision is mine to make and is not subject to appeal. Fees already paid are not refunded.
Certain behaviors result in immediate removal: dishonesty about compliance or circumstances, boundary violations, harassment, illegal requests, attempts to record sessions or communications, breaches of confidentiality policies, or any conduct that demonstrates you cannot be trusted within this structure. Removal in these cases is permanent.
The House serves those capable of being governed. If you prove incapable, you are released to find solutions better suited to your situation.
Scope of Services
I provide behavioral governance informed by principles of psychology, behavioral science, and structured accountability. This work produces meaningful change for those who engage with it fully.
I am not a licensed therapist, physician, or attorney. The House does not provide therapy, medical advice, or legal counsel. If you require clinical mental health treatment, medical care, or legal guidance, you are responsible for obtaining those services from appropriately licensed professionals. I may recommend that you seek such services as part of your governance, but I do not provide them.
This work is appropriate for individuals with baseline psychological stability who are seeking structure and accountability, not crisis intervention. If you are experiencing acute mental health symptoms, active addiction requiring medical supervision, or circumstances that require clinical care, address those needs before applying.
Amendments
These policies may be updated as the House evolves. Material changes will be communicated to active clients. Continued participation following notification constitutes acceptance of updated terms.
TERMS OF SERVICE
Last Updated: 1/11/2025
Agreement to Terms
By accessing the House of Selection website, submitting an application, or engaging with any services offered, you agree to be bound by these Terms of Service. If you do not agree to these terms, do not use this website or apply for services.
These Terms constitute a legally binding agreement between you and the House of Selection. Please read them carefully before proceeding.
Eligibility
Services offered by the House of Selection are available only to individuals who are:
At least 18 years of age (or the age of majority in your jurisdiction, whichever is higher)
Legally capable of entering into binding contracts
Not prohibited by applicable law from receiving these services
By submitting an application or engaging with services, you represent and warrant that you meet all eligibility requirements. Misrepresentation of age or eligibility results in immediate termination of access and forfeiture of any fees paid.
Nature of Services
The House of Selection provides behavioral governance, structured accountability, and personal development services. These services include consultations, assessments, structured programs, and ongoing governance arrangements as described on this website.
Services are not:
Licensed therapy, counseling, or psychological treatment
Medical advice or treatment
Legal or financial advice from a licensed professional
A substitute for clinical care when clinical care is indicated
You acknowledge that the House of Selection operates outside the scope of licensed mental health practice and that participation does not establish a therapist-client, physician-patient, or attorney-client relationship.
You are solely responsible for your mental and physical health, for seeking appropriate licensed professional care when needed, and for all decisions you make during and after engagement with these services.
Application and Acceptance
All services require application and acceptance. Submission of an application does not guarantee acceptance. The House of Selection reserves sole discretion to accept or decline any application for any reason, or for no stated reason.
Acceptance to one level of service does not guarantee acceptance to subsequent levels. Progression through service tiers is earned through demonstrated engagement and is granted at the sole discretion of the House of Selection.
Application materials become the property of the House of Selection upon submission. Information provided in applications is used solely for evaluation purposes and is subject to the Privacy Policy.
Fees and Payment
All fees are listed on the Services page and are due according to the payment schedule provided at booking. Fees are quoted in U.S. dollars unless otherwise specified.
Payment Terms:
Foundation Assessment and program fees are due in full before services commence
Private Governance fees are due quarterly in advance
Accepted payment methods are specified at booking
You are responsible for any transaction fees, currency conversion fees, or bank charges associated with your payment
No Refunds: All payments are final and non-refundable. This applies regardless of whether you complete the program, attend all scheduled sessions, or choose to discontinue participation. By submitting payment, you acknowledge and accept this policy.
Chargebacks and Disputes: Initiating a chargeback or payment dispute constitutes a material breach of these Terms. In such cases, the House of Selection reserves the right to pursue collection of the disputed amount plus any associated fees, suspend or terminate your access immediately, and decline any future applications.
Scheduling and Cancellation
Sessions and consultations are scheduled in advance according to availability. You are responsible for attending scheduled sessions at the designated time.
Cancellation Policy:
Cancellations or rescheduling requests must be submitted at least 48 hours before the scheduled session
Cancellations with less than 48 hours notice forfeit the full session fee
Missed sessions without prior notice forfeit the full session fee
Repeated cancellations or patterns of unreliability may result in termination of services
The House of Selection reserves the right to reschedule sessions when necessary due to circumstances beyond reasonable control. In such cases, you will be offered an alternative time at no additional charge.
Confidentiality
The House of Selection maintains strict confidentiality regarding client information and the content of sessions. Information you disclose will not be shared with third parties except:
When required by law, court order, or legal process
When necessary to prevent imminent harm to yourself or others
With service providers who assist in delivering services, bound by confidentiality obligations
With your explicit written consent
You agree to maintain confidentiality regarding the methods, materials, and proprietary approaches used in your work with the House of Selection. You may discuss your personal experience in private contexts but may not publicly disclose, reproduce, or distribute proprietary content, methodologies, or materials.
Intellectual Property
All content on this website, including text, graphics, logos, images, and software, is the property of the House of Selection or its content suppliers and is protected by copyright, trademark, and other intellectual property laws.
You may not reproduce, distribute, modify, create derivative works from, publicly display, or otherwise use any content from this website without prior written permission.
Materials provided during the course of services, including assessments, protocols, and program materials, are licensed for your personal use only. You may not share, sell, reproduce, or distribute these materials.
User Conduct
By engaging with the House of Selection, you agree to:
Provide accurate and complete information in applications and throughout your engagement
Communicate respectfully and within established boundaries
Comply with all applicable laws and regulations
Refrain from recording sessions, communications, or materials without explicit written consent
Maintain the confidentiality expectations described in these Terms
Refrain from using services for any unlawful purpose
Violation of these conduct standards may result in immediate termination of services without refund.
Termination
Termination by You: You may discontinue services at any time by providing written notice. Fees already paid are not refunded upon voluntary termination.
Termination by the House of Selection: The House of Selection reserves the right to terminate your access to services at any time, for any reason, including but not limited to:
Violation of these Terms of Service
Conduct deemed inappropriate, unsafe, or incompatible with the work
Failure to meet payment obligations
Determination that services are not appropriate for your circumstances
Any behavior that undermines the integrity of the work or the safety of any party
Upon termination, your access to services, materials, and communication channels will be revoked. Fees paid prior to termination are not refunded.
Disclaimers
Services are provided "as is" and "as available" without warranties of any kind, either express or implied. The House of Selection does not warrant that services will meet your specific expectations, produce particular results, or be uninterrupted or error-free.
Results from behavioral governance and personal development work vary by individual. No specific outcome is guaranteed. Testimonials or descriptions of results achieved by others do not guarantee that you will achieve similar results.
You acknowledge that personal development work may surface uncomfortable emotions, challenge existing patterns, and require sustained effort. You voluntarily assume these risks by engaging with services.
Limitation of Liability
To the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, the House of Selection, its owner, agents, and affiliates shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages arising from or related to your use of services, including but not limited to:
Loss of income, profits, or business opportunities
Emotional distress or psychological discomfort
Decisions made based on information or guidance received
Any actions you take or fail to take as a result of services
The total liability of the House of Selection for any claim arising from services shall not exceed the amount you paid for the specific service giving rise to the claim.
Some jurisdictions do not allow limitation of certain damages. In such jurisdictions, liability is limited to the greatest extent permitted by law.
Indemnification
You agree to indemnify, defend, and hold harmless the House of Selection, its owner, agents, and affiliates from and against any claims, damages, losses, liabilities, costs, and expenses (including reasonable attorneys' fees) arising from:
Your use of services
Your violation of these Terms
Your violation of any rights of any third party
Any content or information you provide
Dispute Resolution
Any dispute arising from or relating to these Terms or your use of services shall first be addressed through good-faith negotiation between the parties.
If negotiation does not resolve the dispute within 30 days, the dispute shall be resolved through binding arbitration conducted in accordance with the rules of the American Arbitration Association. Arbitration shall take place in [State/Jurisdiction], and the decision of the arbitrator shall be final and binding.
You agree that any dispute resolution proceedings will be conducted on an individual basis and not as a class action or representative proceeding.
Governing Law
These Terms shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of [State], without regard to conflict of law principles. You consent to the exclusive jurisdiction of courts located in [State/County] for any legal proceedings not subject to arbitration.
Severability
If any provision of these Terms is found to be invalid, illegal, or unenforceable, the remaining provisions shall continue in full force and effect. The invalid provision shall be modified to the minimum extent necessary to make it valid and enforceable while preserving its original intent.
Entire Agreement
These Terms, together with the Privacy Policy and any service-specific agreements provided at booking, constitute the entire agreement between you and the House of Selection regarding your use of services. These Terms supersede any prior agreements or communications.
Modifications
The House of Selection reserves the right to modify these Terms at any time. Material changes will be posted on this page with an updated revision date. Your continued use of services following posted changes constitutes acceptance of the modified Terms.
Contact
Questions regarding these Terms of Service may be directed to:
admin@houseofselection.space
By using this website or engaging with services, you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agree to be bound by these Terms of Service.